Halloween tree


I came home from the park one day and said to Nick, “I found the perfect branch!”  Of course, he had no idea what I was talking about.  I put it on newspapers in the backyard and spray painted it black.  (First I sprayed it with Raid to make sure there were no creepy crawlies on it.)  I gathered any kind of decoration I could find, made a few myself (including the tissue ghost), popped it into a vase, and now have a Halloween centerpiece.

A witch’s week

A witch’s week in October:

It’s so ugly, I love it.
A book I refer to in all seasons; it’s filled with recipes, stories, rituals, spells. It always inspires and gets me back to using nature in the kitchen.
I don’t care if my old Laurel & Hardy piano is dusty, out of tune and missing ivories. I took lessons for 10 years a long time ago and I’ve chosen the Michael Myer’s Theme to get back to a talent I used to possess.


This book is only brought out for one month a year – and this is it.
A feral cat who loves to sleep among my hedges and weeds. Whenever I see her, I say, “Hi, fat cat.”
A perfect little mushroom found in the woods while on a walk. Which reminds me of Alice – when she’s 10 feet tall.

And that’s my week! How was yours?

Strawberry moon poem and Summer of Love



Strawberry Moon

                                                      by Patrick Carrington

Strawberry moon spreads its will
like jam, sweet with the sugars
of song and sunfade, and I see
the back of sadness break.

Mockingbirds scoop the music
of a stream and fly it to the trees,
share the throat of that new sister
as they sing. Rich with birds,

the willows whistle and dance,
waving their fronds like the wings
of their siblings. The tender joinings

of evening call me,
water to wing to willow.

                                                                                 (Printed with permission of the author)

What is a strawberry moon?

The strawberry moon made its appearance last night.  It’s still there, so if you missed it (Nick), look up! It is called a strawberry moon not because it is red (because it is not), but after the Algonquins, who named the full moon in June after the fruit that is harvested this month.

Summer solstice on the same night as a full moon = once in a lifetime

Summer also arrived at 6:34 pm yesterday, so today is the first full day of summer. The timing of a full moon on the same day as the summer solstice is a rare thing – once every 49 years.  The last time this happened, we were all stringing love beads, reading One Hundred Years of Solitude, and watching The Andy Griffith Show. The average house cost $14,250, average income was $7,300, and we were listening to the Rolling Stones’ “Let’s Spend the Night Together.” (When they performed on The Ed Sullivan Show, he made them change the lyrics to “let’s spend some time together.”) It was the Summer of Love and Rolling Stone magazine came out with its first issue.

Go out and catch this phenomenon because it won’t happen again until 2062. Light some incense, dance under the full moon, and howl!

National Pig Day – Give a Chanchito

Piglet (Petr Kratochvil via Wiki Commons)

National Pig Day

Happy National Pig Day! March 1 is one of those weird little holidays, like Dance like a Chicken Day (May 14) or Defy Superstition Day (September 13). (See more at holidayinsights.com.) According to Wikipedia, National Pig Day was invented in 1972 by two sisters and its purpose is:

“To accord the pig its rightful, though generally unrecognized, place as one of man’s most intellectual and domesticated animals.”

Not surprisingly, it is mostly celebrated in the Midwest.

Yay, pigs

I’m not sure if we’re supposed to revere the pig or eat the pig, but it is fairly well known that pigs are intelligent animals.  According to this NY Times article,

“Wild pigs live in long-term social groups, keeping track of one another as individuals, the better to protect against predation. They also root around for difficult food sources, requiring a dexterity of the snout not unlike the handiness of a monkey.

Other researchers have found that pigs are brilliant at remembering where food stores are cached and how big each stash is relative to the rest. They’ve shown that Pig A can almost instantly learn to follow Pig B when the second pig shows signs of knowing where good food is stored, and that Pig B will try to deceive the pursuing pig and throw it off the trail so that Pig B can hog its food in peace.”

Pigs have many similarities to the human genome and their valves are even used in human heart transplants. If you just think of them are filthy animals, there is a reason they roll around in the mud: to cool down, because they lack sweat glands.

Chanchito, lucky pig sculpture from Chile (Photo: Nance Carter)
Chanchito, lucky pig from Chile (Photo: Nance Carter)

Chanchitos lucky pig

If you’ve been to Chile or visited certain museums, you may have seen a full bellied clay sculpture of a three-legged pig. This is a Chanchito. It is a good luck talisman. Chanchitos  originated in Pomaire, a town in Chile, about 30 miles from Santiago. The land there is rich in clay and therefore pottery has been a tradition since the 17th Century.

I purchased my little Chanchito on a trip to the National Museum of the American Indian (the old Customs House) in Manhattan a few years ago, and it sits on my kitchen windowsill. The museum was made in the Beaux-Arts style and is spectacular. If you are ever in Lower Manhattan, stop by – both for the architecture and Native American history.

National Museum of the American Indian (Photo: By Stuart Sevastos (Natural History Museum of the American Indian) [CC BY 2.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.0)], via Wikimedia Commons
National Museum of the American Indian (Photo: Stuart Sevastos, CC BY 2.0 via Wiki Commons)
If it looks familiar, the building has been featured in many movies and TV shows, including Black Swan, Ghostbusters II, Godfather III. I used to work a couple of blocks away and one day noticed a sign saying a movie was to be filmed there so I asked the crew which one, and they said Batman Forever. My son was (is) a huge Batman fan so I made arrangements to get him there in time and we watched Tommy Lee Jones and company film outside. In one memorable scene, Batman jumped from the left first floor window. In the finished movie, they CGI’d it so it looks like he jumped from 50 stories up.  Movie magic..

Today is also meteorological Spring – a good day to put Winter away.

Imbolc activities


Imbolc, or the Mid Winter Festival of Lights, begins February 1. It’s beginning to stay light a bit longer and we are now halfway between Winter and Spring. There are several ways to celebrate this Sabbat. Also, refer to my earlier article, Imbolc, festival of lights for more craft, decoration, and meal ideas (including the most awesome Hungarian Goulash and my fave oatmeal yogurt). Another article, Easy Vegan dinner for Imbolc, includes recipes and photos.


It’s not too cold to connect with nature

We can always connect with nature, even if it local parks and beaches are closed due to snow and ice. Alternatives are to visit a natural history museum, planetarium or zoo. Put suet blocks in a feeder and count the birds and type of birds in your yard. FYI the next Audubon backyard bird count is February 12-15, but why not become familiar with your birdy visitors now. If there’s just too much snow or you have no ambition, you could lay on the couch and watch Cowspiracy on Netflix. Although I personally cannot bring myself to watch it, they are urging people to get involved and take a 30 day Vegan challenge. I have done that and it was not difficult at all. Try my vegan dinner, referred to above. And if you have watched Cowspiracy, please comment below.


As it’s been very cold here and I wasn’t feeling my usual 1 hour park walk, I went to Hicks, a large local nursery on Long Island, established in 1853. It was a good time to go, because all flowering plants are 30% off. I bought a white cyclamen, pictured above. They flower all winter and seem easy enough to take care of – we’ll see..

Amethyst ("GuerreroAméthyste" by Didier Descouens - Own work. Licensed under CC BY-SA 3.0 via Wikimedia Commons - https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:GuerreroAm%C3%A9thyste.jpg#/media/File:GuerreroAm%C3%A9thyste.jpg)
Amethyst (“GuerreroAméthyste” by Didier Descouens – CC BY-SA 3.0 via Wiki Commons)

Imbolc correspondences

For those who like correspondences – and I include myself here, below are a few for Imbolc. Use them in your decorations and rituals.

Zodiac: Aquarius (yay, me)
Solar System: Moon
Colors: White, green
Element: Fire (candles)
Trees: Cedar, Rowan, Sycamore
Plants: Grain, Reed
Herbs: Basil, Blackberry
Gems and Minerals: Amethyst, Turquoise


Animals: Deer, sheep, groundhog (don’t forget Feb. 2 – Will Punxsutawny Phil see his shadow? Will Jimmy the groundhog bite the mayor again?)
Birds: Robin
Mythical: Dragon

Goddess (pick one to connect with and learn more about):

Brigid: Goddess of healing, fertility and poetry; fire element; #19; blue; dress your altar with: Empress tarot

Arianrhod: Moon goddess; air element; #9; silver; altar: moonstone

Athena: Goddess of wisdom, war, crafts, and protector; air element; #6&7; yellow; altar: sphinx

"The Imbolc Ritual Altar" by Rebecca Radcliff - originally posted to Flickr as The Imbolc Ritual Altar. Licensed under CC BY-SA 2.0 via Wikimedia Commons - https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:The_Imbolc_Ritual_Altar.jpg#/media/File:The_Imbolc_Ritual_Altar.jpg
(“The Imbolc Ritual Altar” by Rebecca Radcliff – originally posted to Flickr/CC BY-SA 2.0 via Wiki Commons)


Activate/awaken, animals, banish, beginnings, divination, fertility, healing, hope, illumination, inspiration, light, pregnancy/childbirth, prophecy, prosperity, purification, transformation, well-being, youth.

Add magic into your Happy New Year Day meal


Happy New Year!

Almost every culture has a favorite New Year’s Day food to bring good luck.  In the South, it’s black eyed peas.  Spanish celebrants pop 12 grapes at midnight.  Lentils are a biggie in Italy and Cubans cook roast pork.  My father’s lucky food was creamed herring, eaten every New Year’s Eve and Day, to my disgust.  Check out allrecipes.com to find recipes for good luck foods around the world.

Witchy New Year

To inspire the witch in you and begin the new year right, add a little basil to your meal for luck, happiness, clarity and wealth.  Stir symbols of what you wish to attract into your life this year, into the pot.  It can be a heart, dollar sign, a name, words, place you’d like to vacation, or a symbol that has meaning only to you.  Make the spell your own and live this year in positivity.

Haunted Raynham Hall, Long Island

Haunted Raynham Hall, Oyster Bay (Photo: Nance Carter)
Haunted Raynham Hall, Oyster Bay (Photo: Nance Carter)

Historic Raynham Hall in Oyster Bay, Long Island, is rumored to be haunted so I decided to check it out one afternoon. Besides that, it has something to do with the A&E TV show Turn, about George Washington’s Culper spies during the Revolutionary War. I learned this house was also the setting for the first Valentine and first Christmas tree in the U.S.

Raynham Hall has a pretty interesting history. If you can’t get there, check out their website, which is where I found most of the information in this article. Here, I tried to simplify and define their info, as when I visited the house I was completely confused reading the histories, and I know if I was confused, I can’t imagine what the fifth graders who visit get out of it. If you just want to read about the ghosts, scroll down – I’ve included a few videos and an EVP.

Raynham Hall, Oyster Bay (Photo: Nance Carter)
Raynham Hall, home of Robert Townsend of the Culper Spy Ring (Photo: Nance Carter)


Raynham Hall was bought by Samuel Townsend in 1740. He had been living in his father’s home in Jericho. He wanted to move to nearby Oyster Bay to be closer to the waterfront, as he owned a shipping business with his brother Jacob. The original house was 4 rooms with an apple orchard across the street and a narrow meadow that led to the harbor. Soon after the purchase, he enlarged the house to 8 rooms. When a lean-to was added on one side, the house became a saltbox (structure with 1 side of the roof sloping downward much lower than the other side). It was called The Homestead and later renamed Raynham Hall by Samuel’s grandson, Samuel, when he renovated it in the mid-1800’s in the Victorian style of the day. (This Raynham Hall should not to be confused with Raynham Hall in England. More about that one later.) Samuel lived there with his wife, Sarah, their 8 kids, and several slaves.


(Drawing of Raynham Hall, 1852)

By 1765, the brothers owned 4 ships, which were used in trading many goods, including logwood (for dying textiles), tea, lumber, molasses, sugar, china, wine, textiles, dye and rum. Samuel also owned a general store in his house, selling the goods he imported from Europe, Central America and the West Indies. He was the town Justice of the Peace and Town Clerk, was a member of the NY Provincial Congress for 3 years, and after the American Revolution, was a NY State Senator from 1786 to 1790. So, Samuel was a successful and respected guy.

British invasion of Long Island, 1776


At the time of the American Revolution, most people in the town were on the side of the British. Samuel, however, was on the Patriots‘ side. It was an unpopular choice, especially after the Patriots were defeated at the Battle of Long Island in 1776. All of Long Island and New York City were then occupied by the British, and prisoners were treated viciously. Citizens who didn’t toe the line were held captive on brutal prison ships. (By the end of the Revolution in 1783, more than 10,000 people in this area died of illness or starvation. At the time Manhattan’s population was approximately 20,000.) In September 1776 British soldiers came to arrest Samuel and put him on one of these ships. He was forced out of the house and led through town to Pine Hollow. His daughter, sister and her husband happened to be passing by and saw what was going on.  The husband paid several thousand pounds (a lot of money) to bribe the soldiers to set Samuel free.

For 6 months Raynham Hall was commandeered by the British and acted as the Queen’s Rangers headquarters. Their commander was Lt. Col. John Simcoe.  He lived in the home with the Townsends.  British soldiers were in and out, and officer meetings were held every day in the front parlor.

Robert Townsend's book of accounts, 1772
Robert Townsend’s book of accounts, 1772 (Photo: Nance Carter)


The earliest written evidence of the Townsends owning slaves came from a 1749 receipt stating a man was bought by Samuel for 37 pounds (approximately £5,244 today = US$8,031). A family bible lists 17 slaves. There are no last names, but some of the slaves had the first names of Hannah, Violet, Susannah, Jeffrey, Susan, Elizabeth, Catherine, Lilly, Harry, Gabriel and Jane. This bible also lists births, deaths and a partial genealogy. Elizabeth escaped in 1779 with the British Queen’s Rangers (British soldiers). When Samuel’s oldest son, Solomon, married his cousin Anne in 1782, they were gifted Gabriel and Jane. Gabriel and Jane’s children also became slaves to Solomon, as well as a few others. A “Negro ledger” was found in the home which recorded purchases of goods sold in the house’s general store by area slaves for their masters.


In 1778 George Washington strategized that since the British had a stronger army than the Patriots, he had to find an advantage, so he created a spy ring. After Nathan Hale, 21, was hanged by the British in Manhattan for being a spy, Washington tapped Benjamin Tallmadge, who had been Hale’s classmate at Yale, as chief recruiter and operator of the spy ring. Tallmadge’s first recruit was Abraham Woodhull, because he was a childhood friend who he trusted.

Nathan Hale
Nathan Hale


According to ephemeralnewyork.wordpress.com, the question of exactly where in Manhattan Nathan Hale was hanged is still a mystery.

“A 13-foot statue of Revolutionary War hero Nathan Hale stands tall in City Hall Park. Yet no one seems to know for sure where he was actually executed for spying on the British. There are two competing locations. A plaque posted on a Banana Republic store at Third Avenue and 66th Street claims that the 21-year-old American spy was strung up on a gallows within 100 yards of that site on September 22, 1776. The information comes from a British Officer’s diary, which stated that the hanging occurred at “the Royal Artillery Park near the Dove Tavern at the old Post Road, now Third Avenue. . . .” But there’s another plaque, on East 44th Street and Vanderbilt Avenue, that says this is the location of Hale’s execution and that the “British Artillery Park” existed here. The building the plaque is affixed to belongs to the Yale Club. Hale was a Yale graduate, class of 1773.”


According to grammarist.com:

Hung is the past tense and past participle of hang in most of that verb’s senses. For instance, yesterday you might have hung a picture on the wall, hung a right turn, and hung your head in sorrow. The exception comes where hang means to put to death by hanging. The past tense and past participle of hang in this sense, and only in this sense, is hanged. When someone is hung out of malice but with no intent to kill, as described in the example, hung is the conventional word.

What I get from that is if a person was hung and is still alive, he was hung. If a person was hung and was killed, he was hanged.

Raynham Hall, Victorian kitchen (Photo: Nance Carter)
Raynham Hall, Victorian kitchen (Photo: Nance Carter)


Getting back to the beginnings of the spy ring, Abraham Woodhull, the first recruited spy, asked Robert Townsend, Samuel’s son, if he would be a spy for the Patriots in New York City. Robert ran a shipping company with his brother and cousin in Manhattan. His business allowed him to circulate about town and hear the whisperings of upcoming British troop activities. His spy code name became “Culper Junior.” Abraham Woodhull was “Samuel Culper Senior.” Washington used the name Culper because it was a derivative of Culpeper County in Virginia. Washington didn’t have a spy name like the above, it was more a code: Agent 711.

I was surprised to learn the spy ring used an invisible ink formulated by James Jay, John Jay’s brother, and G. Washington had a special solution to turn it back to visible. I had no idea that had been invented way back then. They also used a complicated numeric code. See the actual Culper Spy Ring codes. Robert sent his coded messages to George Washington via courier (mainly tavern owner Austin Roe) to Woodhull in Setauket. There, a local woman, Anna Strong, was all for aiding the spies because her husband, a judge, spent years on one of the British prison ships. Anna would signal another spy, Caleb Brewster, using laundry on her clothesline. If a message was ready, she would hang a black petticoat on the line. Brewster would then pick up the message from Woodhull and sail to Connecticut by whaleboat and give it to Tallmadge, who would make notes, and then finally to George Washington. It took Tallmadge too much time, so he ended up using soldiers on horseback to get the message to G. Washington. And, yes, G. Washington complained that it took too long to get a stinkin’ spy message.  Sometimes the action would already have happened before the note got to G. Washington. The ring’s greatest accomplishment was to send word to G. Washington that the British were planning to attack the French fleet in Newport, Rhode Island. Washington then bluffed that his Patriots were planning an attack on New York City. The British fell for it and Newport was safe for the French.

(Drawing by Townsend’s nephew, early 1800’s)


Robert moved back into Raynham Hall after his father, Samuel, died in 1790. He lived there with his two sisters, Sarah and Phebe. It wasn’t until the 1930’s that anyone knew of his involvement in the Culper Spy Ring. At that time, a historian, Morton Pennypacker, hired a handwriting analyst to find out who Culper Junior was, and he discovered it was Robert Townsend.

Raynham Hall dining room (Photo: Nance Carter)
Raynham Hall Victorian dining room (Photo: Nance Carter)


Samuel’s grandson, Solomon Townsend, bought the home from his uncle in 1851 and changed the Colonial style house into a Gothic Revival style home. He also added 14 rooms (now 22 total). A large rear wing and a tower doubled the size of the house and altered it into a Victorian style home. This is when he renamed it Raynham Hall, after the Townshends of England. (Charles Townshend wrote the Townshend Acts in Britain, which imposed duties on products imported to the colonies – glass, lead, paints, paper, and the famous tea). The Americans thumbed their nose at this and reduced imports to Britain. Within 3 years, Parliament repealed all of the duties except the tax on tea. A truce was declared for a few years, but then Parliament passed The Tea Act, and that gave The British East India Company a monopoly on the sale of tea in America. And that led to you know what, which started the American Revolution. So, in essence, Samuel Townsend, who bought the house back in 1740, opposed the British during the American Revolution, had a son who was a spy against the British during the same war, and then had a grandson, who renamed his house in honor of a British man who got the ball rolling on this war.

In the early 1950’s the house was restored back to a 1740 Colonial style, except for the Victorian style kitchen and north wing that were kept the same, to show family history in the mid-1800’s and keep a caretaker’s residence. There were additional renovations after that, and the rooms now have been historically restored to the 18th and 19th century history of the home and family.  In the Colonial part of the house, the rooms are furnished to show the 1770’s, when it was used as Simcoe’s British headquarters.  The Victorian portion of the home is restored to the 1870’s, when Solomon Townsend, the grandson, lived there.

Raynham Hall colonial hall (Photo: Nance Carter)
Raynham Hall Colonial hall (Photo: Nance Carter)


The house stayed in the family until 1933, when owner Sarah Townsend Coles Halstead sold it to the Daughters of the American Revolution in Oyster Bay for $10. (The Wikipedia page says the house had a $20,000 mortgage at that time.) She had previously opened a tea room (they were popular at the time) in the home, but it was not very profitable. The DAR is a patriotic organization composed of descendents of Patriots, so even though it was still called Raynham Hall, it in a way reverted back to the original sympathies of Samuel. The DAR donated the property to the Town of Oyster Bay in 1947, with the stipulation that it remain:

“as a public shrine, and as far as possible, make perpetual a memorial to the brave men and women of revolutionary times, for the use and benefit of the general public of the nation under agreements, covenants and conditions which will best secure to our people the diffusion of knowledge and the inspiration of our forebears in cherishing freedom, love of country and the fostering of patriotism.”

Currently, the Friends of Raynham Hall, Inc. partners with the Town to maintain the operate the house as a museum.

America's First Valentine, Raynham Hall (Photo: Nance Carter)
America’s First Valentine, Raynham Hall (Photo: Nance Carter)


The first Valentine sent in the U.S. was penned by Simcoe (who, as a British Lt. Colonel, lived in the house with the family for 6 months) to Samuel’s daughter Sarah and given to her on February 14, 1779. Sarah was a spinster until her death at the age of 82, when the valentine was found.

Fairest Maid, where all is fair, Beauty’s pride and Nature’s care;
To you my heart I must resign, O choose me for your Valentine!
Love, Mighty God! Thou know’st full well, where all thy Mother’s graces dwell,
Where they inhabit and combine to fix thy power with spells divine;
Thou know’st what powerful magick lies within the round of Sarah’s eyes,
Or darted thence like lightning fires, and Heaven’s own joys around inspires;
Thou know’st my heart will always prove the shrine of pure unchanging love!
Say; awful God! Since to thy throne two ways that lead are only known—
Here gay Variety presides, and many a youthful circle guides
Through paths where lilies, roses sweet, bloom and decay beneath their feet;
Here constancy with sober mien regardless of the flowery Scene
With Myrtle crowned that never fades, in silence seeks the Cypress Shades,
Or fixed near Contemplation’s cell, chief with the Muses loves to dwell,
Leads those who inward feel and burn and often clasp the abandon’d urn,–
Say, awful God! Did’st thou not prove my heart was formed for Constant love?
Thou saw’st me once on every plain to Delia pour the artless strain—
Thou wept’sd her death and bad’st me change my happier days no more to range
O’er hill, o’er dale, in sweet Employ, of singing Delia, Nature’s joy;
Thou bad’st me change the pastoral scene forget my Crook; with haughty mien
To raise the iron Spear of War, victim of Grief and deep Despair:
Say, must I all my joys forego and still maintain this outward show?
Say, shall this breast that’s pained to feel be ever clad in horrid steel?
Nor swell with other joys than those of conquest o’er unworthy foes?
Shall no fair maid with equal fire awake the flames of soft desire:
My bosom born, for transport, burn and raise my thoughts from Delia’s urn?
 “Fond Youth,” the God of Love replies, “Your answer take from Sarah’s eyes.”


According to a plaque in the Victorian parlor, the tradition of a decorated Christmas tree originated in Germany and became popular in 1840’s England. The Townsend tree was decorated with fine glass ornaments, tinsel and blazing candles – with a watchful servant standing by with buckets of water.


There are many stories of sightings, smells and sounds of ghosts in Raynham Hall.  When I asked the docent, she admitted to a few occasions when she saw a little something that could have been a presence, but could also be explained away as not a presence.  The workers did not want to promote a haunted side to the house museum; they wanted to stress the history. I got the feeling that some unexplained things had happened and they did not want to talk about them.  However, I found a few videos online of investigations held at the house.

As far as legends go, I had to rely on the internet: wiki and some other sources. Tales about ghosts in the house go back to the 1930’s. An article about the hauntings was written in 1938 by the owner, Julia Cole. She wrote a guest woke up to the sounds of what turned out to be a ghostly white horse and rider outside the bedroom window.  The writer thought it was Major John Andre, who had been in the house shortly before he was captured and killed during the war.  Others have said this ghost was in the Raynham Hall in England.  The article also told about her sister, who saw an elderly male ghost come down the stairs, turn back toward the dining room and vanish. The sister insisted it was Robert Townsend. It should be noted the part of the house he was seen was not built until 13 years after Townsend died.

More recently, a museum patron heard “the swish of petticoats” behind her as she walked past the stairs. When she turned, she saw a bit of a Victorian-dressed figure go by her toward the back of the house. Unexplained noises have been heard in the house and staff has heard footsteps following them in the front hallway of the Victorian part of the house. Noises have been heard in the slave quarters, as well as the smell of roses. This area is not open to the public. Other unexplained smells, such as pipe tobacco and wood fire, have been noted in the first floor of the Colonial area. This is where Samuel would typically smoke a pipe, while relaxing in front of the fire. Sometimes the smell of a baking apple pie or cinnamon could be found in the kitchen.

In 1999 a ghost with dark curly hair, beard and moustache, about 20-30 years old, and wearing a dark coat with brass buttons was spotted at the servant’s entry, looking into the garden. It’s believed he was an Irish servant, Michael Conlin. Since servants’ records were not rigorously updated, it is not known if there was a servant by this name. Many people have indicated a 5-10 degree colder difference in Sally’s (Sarah) room than in the other rooms.  She was the woman who fell in love with Simcoe. By the end of the war, he moved back to England and married someone else.  Sarah never married in all her 82 years. The valentine Simcoe wrote to her was found after her death, very creased, as if it had been read over and over and over. If anyone is haunting Raynham Hall, it should be her.

Brown Lady of Raynham Hall, England 1936 (Photo by Captain Hubert C. Provand)
Brown Lady of Raynham Hall, England 1936 (Photo by Captain Hubert C. Provand)

The Brown Lady is a famous ghostly figure photographed for the magazine ‘Countylife’ in 1938. You can see her descending a staircase. She and other ghosts have been seen there many times – but in Raynham Hall in England, not the one in Oyster Bay.


Raynham Hall, 20 W. Main St., Oyster Bay, NY.  516-922-6808. Admission: Adults $5. Students $3. Seniors, service people & under 6 
Free. Open Tuesday through Sunday 1-5 p.m.

Tri-Spy Tour: There is an interesting tour in nearby Setauket that takes visitors on the actual trails the British and Patriots once roamed, as well as historic sights relating to the Culper Spy Ring. The Tri-Spy Tour can be taken by foot (3 miles), bicycle (15 miles) or kayak (4 hours).

DOWNLOAD THE ORIGINAL CULPER CODE BOOK at spycurious.wordpress.com.

Unique Halloween costumes for women to buy online

While looking for a Halloween costume, I came across some unique ideas and wanted to share a few of them.  If you see an unusual outfit or accessory, let me know!


ouija leggings
Ouija leggings from linkedshop.com $31
ouija board ring
Ouija board ring from etsy $15
ouija necklace
Ouija necklace from etsy $11.99
Ouija board t shirt dress
Ouija board t shirt dress from amazon UK £30.99


witch spell dress
Witch spell dress from inkedshop.com $51.
witch curse dress
Witch curse dress from inkedshop.com $31.96
black evil witch cosplay dress
Black evil witch cosplay dress from dhgate.com $23.92
Sorceress outfit from buycostumes.com $29.99
Sorceress outfit from buycostumes.com $29.99
Salem witch costume from costumesupercenter.com $35.98
Salem witch costume from costumesupercenter.com $35.98


Voodoo doll dress from spirithalloween.com $49.99


Black cat tights from inkedshop.com $7.95
Black cat tights from inkedshop.com $7.95
Fishnet leg bone thigh highs from inkedshop.com $15.96
Fishnet leg bone thigh highs from inkedshop.com $15.96


Ribcage necklace with heart from inkedshop.com $31.96
Ribcage necklace with heart from inkedshop.com $31.96



ANYTHING from curiology.bigcartel.com. They have book of shadows, Dracula’s Castle, Ouija, tattoo machine (and more) purses, plus jewelry that I’ve never seen anywhere else. They’re in the UK, but that should not stop you!  I’ve ordered products from there and it’s no big deal.

Pinterest: Category – Halloween Witch Hats

rebelsmarket.com has a stunning black skull dress and dragon eye ring.  I could not get the photos, so just take my word for it and go to the site.

Have fun shopping!

Mabon ideas


Happy Mabon!  Happy Autumn!

Mabon is a Sabbat that occurs at the same time as the Autumnal Equinox.  It’s a celebration of harvests, and also referred to as the Witches’ Thanksgiving.  Last year I wrote an article about Mabon – read it here.  Included there are ideas on decorating, spells, Mabon oil and incense, activities, what to eat, crafts, and places to go.  Here are some more ideas for the holiday.


Visit a cider mill or pick apples at the farm

I stopped by Jericho Cider Mill which is on Long Island.  While I did not purchase cider, I did buy an apple pie (actually 3 small pies: 2 for my son – apple and apple crumb, and 1 apple crumb for me).  If you don’t have a mill nearby, see if there’s an apple orchard you can visit.  Check the website pickyourown.com to find locations.  If you’re a hiker, there’s a Fall Foliage Map so you can plan when to lace up those boots.

What to do with all those apples:  Make applesauce in the crockpot!  Peel and core as many apples as you can stand to do (and will fit in the crockpot).  Add 1 cup apple cider, 3/4 – 1 cup sugar, and a few tablespoons (I like a lot) of cinnamon, 1 teaspoon of cloves, ginger, and nutmeg.  I strongly urge you to use what you like, and maybe go easy on the spices, tasting as it cooks.  Cook on Low 6 hours or so.  Then mash if needed.  If you can’t be bothered (and this is a REALLY easy recipe, but I know…), go to Cracker Barrel and buy their Spiced Apple Butter.  Or you can buy it online, if you don’t even want to leave the couch.  And that’s okay, too!



Every season I change decor in my home – couch pillows, kitchen curtains and tablecloth or placemats, shower curtain and rugs, blanket or bedspread, flowers (real and not).  If I have an appropriate wreath or sign to put on the door or out front, I’ll do that.  For Mabon, I’ll concentrate on on apples and mums, with colors in the yellow, orange and deep purple range.  Yes, we start to see pumpkins now, but I want to save that for Samhain – Halloween.  You’ll see above I incorporate my pinecones with glittered grapevine balls and rocks.  I collect rocks from different beaches :).  The SISU sign was hand stitched and given to me as a gift.  It is the Finnish word for Strength and Determination.



Apple spice tea:  Pour apple cider in a mug along with 2 whole cloves, 2 whole allspice and 1 regular tea bag (black tea).  Steep for a few minutes.

Spiced coffee:  I know most of you have a Keurig or equivalent, but if you make yours the old fashioned way using ground coffee, add some cinnamon and cardamon to the grounds before brewing.

Candy corn jello shots:  If you like a little buzz in your evenings, abeautifulmess.com tells how to make jello shots that looks just like candy corn – and taste so yummy!

Mabon Tarot Spread
Mabon Tarot Spread

Mabon Tarot spread – wear Amethyst or Topaz while reading

  1. Gratitude – where you’ve been
  2. Grounding – where are you now
  3. Goals – where you want to go
  4. Concentration – what do you need in order to succeed
  5. Obstacles – what to watch out for
  6. Aide – who will help you
  7. Accomplishment – of goals or wishes: either way, yes or no.
Oooh Smores apples!! www.countryliving.com
Oooh Smores apples!! www.countryliving.com

Happy Mabon!!

Homemade soap with herbs


Recently I visited my cousin and we made soap, adding herbs and flowers from the garden.  It came out pretty good and smells delicious, so I’ll tell you how we did it.  It was super easy, quick – and fun.


First we cut up blocks of glycerine soap (available at craft stores like Michaels) and put them in a heatproof cup.IMG_1265

We microwaved the soap at increments of 20 seconds until it was fully melted.


Lavender buds from the garden were added.

We took sage from the garden and broke it up into little pieces.


We threw in some flower petals.  Fresh squeezed lemons were added to the melted soap that had lavender mixed in it and fresh squeezed limes were added into the soap with the sage.


Some glitter was also added and we stirred up each batch.


 The soap was poured into molds.


And put in the refrigerator to harden.

Finished product: homemade soap with herbs

Finished product: homemade soap with herbs.